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Learn To Approach Any Woman
Every man out there should learn how to approach women, because if he doesn't, he is missing out on the vital first step for finding the girl of his dreams and forming a relationship with her...
Every man out there should learn how to approach women, because if he doesn’t, he is missing out on the vital first step for finding the girl of his dreams and forming a relationship with her…
You have to know how to approach a girl in the right manner if you want to have success with your pickup. The following are some proven tips I’d recommend you do to help you be successful in meeting women!
Have you ever approached a girl with what you thought was the best pickup line ever, but she freaked out when you tapped her on the shoulder?
Know this - getting shot down has little to do with what you were going to say or what your intentions were. It’s all about how you go about actually approaching your target. It’s important to do this right the first time, because it’s hard to recover when you make a mistake right off the bat.
The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.
This is known as “coming in under the radar.”
Understand: Most women have trained themselves to just REJECT men outright when they sense they are being picked up on.
This is because women get hit on SO MUCH by men, they just don’t want to deal with yet another guy coming up and wasting their time.
But despite all this, the girl WILL be receptive to you if you know how to approach her in the RIGHT WAY.
So let’s talk about the right way to approach any woman…
First - YOU MUST ACT FAST.
If you wait too long before approaching a girl, you’ll probably talk yourself out of doing it. Be focused, and like Nike - JUST DO IT.
Next, know before-hand what you’re going to say. This makes the act of approaching women so much easier, because you don’t have to waste time thinking of something to talk about before you approach.
When it comes to a situation like this, you should probably have a good, proven “pick up line” memorized that will help start a conversation.
But I’m not talking about the “Hey, nice shoes, what to have sex?” type line. The point is to be NON-THREATENING, remember?
Great pick up lines simply engage women in innocent conversation. So asking her opinion on something and then talking about it is always preferable to a sleazy or funny line that you’ve seen on TV.
An important tip you should be aware of is to always approach a woman at an angle instead of charging towards her like you’re going to war! When you approach at an angle, it’s much less confrontational and you’re going to subconsciously put the woman more at ease than if you approached her head-on.
Remember this golden rule of pick-up: Attraction can only happen when the girl is COMFORTABLE with you! Because of this, it is also vitally important that YOU feel comfortable when approaching women.
If you feel uncomfortable approaching women, the best way to build your comfort level is to go out and practice meeting as many women as you can until you GET comfortable with it!
Let me tell you - getting good at approaching women is not going to happen if all you do is read about it or study it! You actually have to DO it so you can build your level of experience. (Trust me, it gets easier the more you do it).
Don’t be afraid of getting rejected when you do this. Look at it as a game and distance yourself from the outcome. You’re not trying to get a date or get her into bed, your only goal is to talk to her and strike up a conversation. If you do that, you win!
That’s all you need to do!
See how many girls you can talk to in one night, and keep trying to beat your score.
One last note - try and use a “time constraint” whenever you approach a woman. This is as easy as saying you can only talk for a minute before you have to run.
Effective use of time constraints will better engage the woman you’re talking to, because she won’t feel that she’s committing to a time-consuming endeavor. Instead, you’re only a momentary “distraction.” This helps eliminate any reason to reject you right off the bat.
The beauty of this is that if the conversation picks up and is going well, she’ll forget that you used a time constraint, and you can actually talk to her as long as you want. Using a good time constraint is just a way to make the approach easier in the beginning.
In the world of dating, it all boils down to a numbers game. The more women you meet, the better your chances of finding your soul mate.