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How To Make Him Stay When Your Butt Is Twice The Size Of His

We all know men who love, really LOVE a big rear-end. In fact, there are many songs written about this topic and in some African regions women put pillows and such into their skirts to make their derriere look more voluptuous. Imagine your partner absolutely adoring your big rear end - it's really flattering if you think about it.

By Chaszey Sandhriel

We all know men who love, really LOVE a big rear-end. In fact, there are many songs written about this topic and in some African regions women put pillows and such into their skirts to make their derriere look more voluptuous. Imagine your partner absolutely adoring your big rear end - it’s really flattering if you think about it.

If you have a big butt and your man does drool all over himself because of it, you’re lucky! Even Jennifer Lopez tells her trainers to make sure that whatever work outs they give her, to preserve that apple-round-bottom of hers. And while this one asset of ours may be indeed bring us (or them) great pleasure, being overweight does not come with the territory.

If you’re man is not happy about your weight gain and it shows especially in those areas that are considered “high feminine” area such as our curvy waste lines, butt and chest area, what can you do? Is your g-string still visible when you give a performance or is the skimpy fabric covered over by the excess sausages around your waist? You’re okay as long as you can still see your underwear and so can your partner, but it may be time to giddy up and do something if finding your underwear requires a treasure map to find it and dig it up.

Seriously now, no matter what “they” think of us when we are in our birthday suit, it really matters what WE think of ourselves. Because depending on how we feel about ourselves is what determines how free we behave in the bedroom. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and since we are our own beholders every time we look in the mirror, and since our thoughts are creating the person we are moment to moment, it is crucial to be confident with who we are and what we look like, all the time.

The other challenge is that the other person’s facial expressions change as soon as they see us naked. His face either reflects pleasure and turn-on (besides many other drool-causing emotions) or disappointment and let-down. We then pick up his facial expressions, which is information we use to formulate how we want to react and feel about what just happened on that man’s face when he saw you naked.

We have heard this many times, beauty is fleeting, and it’s passing by fast; beauty that comes from the inside, however, will last forever. The fabric of our soul qualities are confidence and happiness, not outer beauty. So it’s important to focus on these internal qualities first, the outward proof on our body is surely to follow.

Here are some tips to regain your confidence.

1. Even if you feel unattractive, start doing some nice things for yourself first, something other than shopping, because they will help you feel more encouraged about yourself. 2. A great way to feel more confident and sexy is to wear matching bra and underwear, no one can see them, but you will know it and it will reflect on the outside. 3. Instead of expecting him to light the candles for you, light the candles for yourself when you put on your make-up or you take a bubble bath (especially if you’re single). 4. Get your toes done even if it’s in the middle of winter and you don’t think that anyone will ever see it. You will see it and it will make you feel “put together” and taken care of. 5. And most importantly, let go of any negative feelings such as jealousy towards other women who are skinnier than you; be peaceful about the way you look and know that absolutely no one can take your place in the divine, and no other woman is capable of stealing your man from you.

Nothing can be stolen from you if it is meant to be yours, so the need for to be jealous of another woman is a complete waste of energy. Provided you have married the right partner you have absolutely no competition, no matter what other women look like. Your loved one will have eyes for you only, and he thinks the world of you no matter what you look like. He may hurt not because you’re overweight, but he may feel your pain of being unhappy with yourself. And how unfair it would be for us to expect him to care for us if we don’t even care for ourselves. The only thing he wants to see is a peaceful woman who is confident inside and out.

PS: If this description is far from the person you are currently with and he even threatens for you to lose weight or else he’ll leave you, then he may be doing you a great service. You may want to consider letting him go so he can run after moving “trophies” so you can focus on getting yourself in perfect condition to welcome the man you were meant to be with in the first place.

Chaszey Sandhriel is a coach, author and a self proclaimed romantic. She went from a size 18 to a size 6 without dieting and found the oomph to let go of a 15-year non-productive marriage. Visit her Website for free gifts, http://www.itsmyweightloss.com. Or visit her amazing blog at http://itsmyweightloss.blogspot.com.

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