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How To Help A Lonely Child
Ignoring the needs of a lonely child will not solve the problem but merely making it harder to solve. The parent and the child's teacher must join hands in finding ways to improve the child's character. If they fail to do so in the earlier stage, they will have a smaller chance when the child grows up.
A lonely child can start as early as four years old, especially when the child is less capable with other children in terms of physical and mental abilities. He will feel rejection and isolation which will prevent him more to socialize. He will enjoy playing alone, and this problem can be brought until he grows older. If this happens, it will be more difficult to solve. Therefore, parents and teachers should start making steps and here are some of them:
Encourage him to befriend a more sociable child. By doing this, your child will likely be influenced by his friend. Although he will find it hard in the beginning, your child will later be following his friend’s actions and his confidence will gradually build up. If you pair him with a lonely child like him, he will not improve.
Pair him with a younger child. Since your child is the older one, he will be the guide and senior which will help your child increase his self-esteem. He will feel the responsibility and he will learn a lot to because his mind will analyze some situation. He will also improve his communication skills. If you pair him with an older child who is more sociable, it may create a deeper problem.
Let him join group activities. This will be a big help for the child since this will require communication and socializing. He will learn to express himself in front of others and share his abilities. His participation will also help him to feel proud of his achievements which will increase his confidence. He may be hesitant at first, but by showing him that it is a safe activity, he will slowly be attracted.
Start with small groups. Smaller groups, like three to four members will not scare your child because he cannot be ignored easily. He has also the bigger chance to lead the group since there will be only a few choices. If his teacher finds him comfortable, she can increase the size gradually. If your child immediately joins a big group, there will be a lot of competition and he has a little chance to enjoy.
Give him specific tasks. This is applicable in school and at home. He will learn some strategies and techniques that he can apply when he is in group activities. However, let him do it alone so that he will realize that he can be trusted. But of course, you need to monitor him if he is doing the right thing.
Teachers are of great help in improving a problem child, but parents should be the first ones to realize the status of their child.