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When Opportunity Presents Itself
After a man and a woman meet and there is a good "vibe", the man has the option of presenting the woman an opportunity to be alone. The woman will never bring it up verbally, so don't expect her to. You must pick up on the cues and react accordingly. Also, a man should never mention why he really wants to be alone with her.
After a man and a woman meet and there is a good “vibe”, the man has the option of presenting the woman an opportunity to be alone. The woman will never bring it up verbally, so don’t expect her to. You must pick up on the cues and react accordingly. Also, a man should never mention why he really wants to be alone with her.
This will spoil the vibe. Find a reason (other than sex) to get her to be alone with you. If you invite her to go back to your place to listen to your new jazz album, then by all means do that! Sex might come later. And again, it might not. Remember, it’s the journey not the destination.
By in fact bringing her back to your place and not putting the moves on her right there and then, you have shown her that you are a classy guy. (You are, right?)
Notice no where in the preceding paragraphs is there any advice on “chasing” a woman, or hounding a woman. The woman has in fact “chased” the man very subtly. This is how it is. After the man decides to approach the woman, the women will decide rather quickly if she wants the exchange to continue (Usually within 90 seconds).
Keep in mind a woman won’t give you a verbal signal (regarding sex anyway). Then she would have to be accountable for anything that happens. You know that won’t happen! She needs to convince herself that whatever happens “just happened” and it was not planned.
Deal with the fact that women are 100x better at this than men are. Women are sophisticated in the subject of body language and non-verbal communication. It’s up to a man to at least obtain a degree of proficiency in this area.
I know this all seems like a lot but once you start practicing you will get it rather quickly. Remember, this is about you, not her. You need to work from the inside out. Work on yourself first, and then start practicing reading women’s body language.