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Foundation
A huge part of attracting and seducing a woman happens before the two of you even speak. I would say probably 90%! Women want certain things from a man, and it is your job to present it to them. Better than presenting certain characteristics is to actually be someone who has these characteristics!
A huge part of attracting and seducing a woman happens before the two of you even speak. I would say probably 90%! Women want certain things from a man, and it is your job to present it to them. Better than presenting certain characteristics is to actually be someone who has these characteristics!
Call to mind the first step of the four part progression: Put yourself in her line of sight and show the traits she wants to see (Alpha male traits). She has made up most of her mind about you before you ever speak to her.
This is because women want an alpha man. They want a confident man. They want a leader. Your body language will give you away every time. Keep in mind that it’s easier to actually have confident body language than to pretend. So, how do you get it?
You obtain it by living a great life. You obtain it by going after the things that you are zealous about. You obtain it by living a well-rounded life and having a strong foundation. By having a solid foundation, women will be a derivative of your awesome life, not the basis for it.
Photography? Billiards? Playing guitar? You need a reason to get up in the morning other than chasing skirt. You need a foundation. You need a clear sense of who you are and what you want from life. Be honest with yourself. I know it can be hard to look at yourself this way, but you must do it.
You must sincerely want to improve yourself as a person. Not so you can get more dates. The dates will be a by product of your foundation. You see, ironically this is less about women and more about you. It is a fact than when you are just living your wonderful life as opposed to going out and chasing women, you will attract more women.
Which guy do you think attracts more women, the guy at the club who is out with his friends joking and laughing and having a great time, or the guy out with his friends “looking for a date”? Do you see what I mean? Now, go out there and start living!