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Dating In The FSU. Be Safe,Sure, BeSuccessful

It is clear that there are many beautiful and very desirable ladies living in FSU countries, but how to find the one for you? Sadly due to the actions of a few, many men are now wary and suspicious. Do not be, there are many, many genuine and sincere ladies waiting to hear from you. Only you need to trust and believe in the agency that you entrust for your search, choose carefully.

By Terrence Aubrey

Many men surfing the net, searching their other half now know this term, this expression. In fact many men have discovered the hard way ,the full meaning and implications of this term. Where did it begin and how did it become such a huge problem?

It is an undeniable fact that The Ukraine and other FSU countries have gained a bad reputation through the actions of scammers, but what percentage of the populations of these countries have been involved? In reality a very small number and can we even be sure that these actions have come out of these countries? The truth is we cannot know. 1 person can easily if he, or she wishes post 100 distinct photos and profiles of beautiful women across the net, yes it really is that easy. So how easy is it for scammers to continue their practices? Ok just to be 100% clear scamming is a form of fraud, cheating, or dishonesty.

How easy is it to perpetuate scamming? It’s ridiculously easy. The problem is that the internet has been from its inception a channel for the free and open exchange of information worldwide and as such is open to all, the good, the bad and the ugly, without distinction.

What does it take to become a scammer?  Put the photo of a drop dead gorgeous woman on the net, pad it out with some wonderful words and that is it. Yes I know it`s too simple, but believe it, or not, it really it is that simple.

Russia & The Ukraine are effectively very poor countries materially, ok there are a few lucky ones that since the fall of the empire have become rich, super rich and we hear much of these people, but they represent a tiny percentage of the population.

Equally, as is now clear, a surprising number of very beautiful women live in these countries and so scamming began. My area of expertise is The Ukraine and within this country the phenomenon of scamming maybe started in Lugansk,, a quite small city, way down in the south east of The Ukraine, it is an area, that until recently was famous for its mineral wealth and mining.

I know this city, I have visited this city, is it special within The Ukraine? Are the ladies here more beautiful than elsewhere? No, it is just another Ukrainian city. My friends from this city tell me that the practise of scamming began about 10 years ago, within Lugansk and these guys made a lot of money.

What did it take, it was so easy. Put a photo of a beautiful lady online; If they had the skill, intelligence and ability to concoct romantic and resposive responces they could be very convincing. We are talking of very intelligent and creative people here and many of them were able to produce very convincing replys to the letters. With these skills and their intelligence they were away. We men have always been attracted to a pretty face, a finely shaped female body and so in the early days it was jackpot time. The beauty of the ladies posted on the net led to a swarm of interest and traffic and the recipients, men or women (who will ever know?) could not believe their luck and soon the money began to pour in.

Before we jump in with our outrage and our criticism, we should remember as I have stated above that this is a part of the world materially deprived and the duped, robed, or conned guys were in general from the 1st world, yes the rich guys. Suddenly the beauty of the women of The Ukraine had a value, became a saleable item and the Internet made it possible.

Who is to blame, the beautiful women, or the gullible guys? It seems to me to be a 50/50 situation and if you are a guy that has been duped, I am sorry, but that is how it seems to me.

Now the plain fact is that The Ukraine and other former Soviet Union countries are very rich in beautiful, cultured and very intelligent women and for a variety of reasons they are open to finding a man from without their borders. How to find and contact one?

There are now some very successful and huge dating sites worldwide. These sites are now huge with millions of users around the world and it is largely due to their, efforts, profesionalism and integrity that online dating is now mainline and socially acceptable. Why should you not seek your Russian, or Ukrainian lady from these sites? Due to their own success they are all automated and self registering systems and whilst I know they have very stringent built in safegaurds and controls, a clever scammer ( and most are very clever) can slip through and into their system? They are dependent on trust, on good will and upon honesty and whilst they have both stringent and strong safeguards, they cannot within their systems police their membership.

The Ukraine and Russia are unique and only through a very controlled system of membership can you be sure. A system whereby each lady is met, interviewed, photographed and then allowed to enrol into the agency. There is quite obviously substancially more work in a tightly controlled Dating Agency in which each woman is personally interviewed before being accepted and this will be reflected in the membership fees. Equally if you need to find your soulmate at no cost a Russian woman is not for you, as the very cost of visiting her and helping move country will not be cheap! No with a good Russian, or Ukraine based Agency at least you can be sure that it is the real thing. So you pay your money and you make your choice.

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