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Why You Need A Life Coach

What's a life coach? Also called a life skills coach, having a coach is essentially like having a personal trainer for your life. Often working by phone consultation, and more rarely, in person, personal coaches work to help you improve various areas of your personal and business life.

By Kurt Schmitt

What’s a life coach? Also called a life skills coach, having a coach is essentially like having a personal trainer for your life. Often working by phone consultation, and more rarely, in person, personal coaches work to help you improve various areas of your personal and business life.

Your coach may take on a number of functions, including career coach, small business coach, motivational, or relationship coach. The experience is very individual, and you can choose to work with your coach in whatever ways best suit your personality and desired results.

Life coaches provide a level of accountability that normally does not exist in most of our lives. When someone is counting on you to succeed, you tend to be much more willing to do those things that are required for success. This is especially true if you’re paying for it.

Many coaches will find a niche for themselves and specialize, based on their interests or talents. For example, David Wood is an inventive enrepreneur, and often works with other coaches, as well as those wanting to start or improve their businesses.

This doesn’t mean that a coach won’t or can’t offer other life enhancing teaching outside of their specialty. What it often means is that they are particularly good at offering that particular kind of coaching. You might do well to find a coach that specializes in what you’re looking for.

Life coaching is a two way process, and is focused on change and results. Some people are just not results oriented. If you tend to resist change, and are not results oriented, you may not enjoy being coached.

Most of us, for whatever our reasons, love to put things off. It’s no big secret then, that procrastination can be a huge barrier to success. To overcome this challenge, your coach will work with you on your motivation. You can enhance your effectiveness by choosing a coach that meshes well with your personality.

If you know that one of your biggest weaknesses is staying motivated, you might want to work with someone who is known for their ability to motivate people. Todd Beeler, for example, is a well known coach and excellent with motivation.

The timing has to be right in order for you to seek out a coach. You’ll benefit most from coaching if you are…

1. Interested in enhancing your business or personal life.

2. Ready to make major changes in your life.

3. Ready to improve your job, start a businesses or take one to the next level, or enhance your relationships.

4. Recovering from a loss or traumatic experience.

5. Ready to get rid of ineffective old habits in favor of new, better habits.

Each coach has their own style, and you need to find someone who has the right methods for you. I recommend you shop for a coach by contacting a few potential candidates. You’ll find that some coaches are willing to work with you on a trial basis. This can help you to find a coach who’s style is right for you.

One word of warning is that you must be ready for this. Your life coach will challenge you to do things that are outside of your comfort zone. If you could do this yourself, you wouldn’t need a coach!

You must commit to this, and that means buying into the process. Are you ready for a huge change? Let’s hope so. It simply doesn’t make sense to invest in a coach if you don’t invest yourself in the coaching process.

Getting the support of those closest to you is extremely important, as they will be most affected by your progress. If you’re ready to make a change, and willing to accept what the change brings, then using a life coach might be just right for you.

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