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Articles by Robert Huizenga

Emotional Infidelity: Falling In And Out Of Love

By Robert Huizenga

One kind of extramarital affair centers on the emotional component. The offending spouse "falls in love" as popularly atated, searching for the emotionally high feelings that s/he believes is normative in a relationship of investment or marriage. The need to be "in love" underlies an affair that results in drama and a futile search to find one's core.

Marital Infidelity Quickie #4: From Depression To Empowerment

By Robert Huizenga

Surviving and coping with infidelity presents specific challenges for the sensitive person. Discover ways this person shifted from depression to hope. Note the ways in her struggle with extramarital affairs and a history of abuse in which she was able to move from the victim role to empowerment.

Infidelity Quickie #3: The "Surface Stroke" Is Killing Me And My Trust

By Robert Huizenga

Rebuilding a marriage after infidelity is often marked by the lack of trust and avoidance of powerful underlying themes. Learn what to say and do for different kinds of affairs.

Infidelity Quickie #2: Breathing Easier

By Robert Huizenga

Surviving infidelity demands a mental framework in the midst of the infidelity that is positive, places responsibility on the cheating spouse and focuses on garnering internal and external support.

Survive Marital Infidelity By First Slowing Down

By Robert Huizenga

Infidelity and extramarital affairs generate a rush of negative thoughts and feelings. One's world accelerates as a result of marital infidelity and it is wise to heed the advice: slow down. A personal example of heeding the call to "chill" illustrates this need.

Extramarital Affair Strategies: How And When To Wait

By Robert Huizenga

There are three distinct periods of waiting with an extramarital affair. Coping with infidelity means, first, waiting for the cheating spouse or situation to change. Marital infidelity then requires that the "offended" spouse wait until s/he is comfortable to act wisely and effectively. And third, the marital partners wait for the effects of infidelity to be played out according to the predictable patterns of different kinds of affairs.

Infidelity Agony: How To Be The HUGE Winner

By Robert Huizenga

Infidelity and marital affairs generate powerful feelings - fear being one of them. The fears of the unknown and being alone are prominent. A "victim" of infidelity and an extramarital affair shares how she faced her fears and transformed her life and relationships.

Infidelity Quickie #1: Feels Like The Agony Of The Affair Will Never End

By Robert Huizenga

From this real-time infidelity coaching scenario, the offended spouse wonders when the agony of the affair will end and when the cheating spouse will change. The Infidelity Coach, Dr. Robert Huizenga, responds to her concerns.